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We began to grow , a child requires interaction with each other . The interaction process was developed along age. Starting limited to family members ; mother , father and siblings . Thus , with increasing age , the interaction area was widened . Approximately five years of age , children begin to grow desire friends. Children began to talk about what happened with his friend . In fact , at the age of approximately four years of a child already chattering mimic what the teacher said in the study . The process of imitation ( imitate ) that occurs in children showed social interaction the child begins to expand . Not limited to family members only.As a servant of God who has a social nature , children need healthy social interaction .
Healthy social interaction is characterized by the form friendships that will not relent from the remembrance of Allah , seeking to revive the Sunnah of His Prophet , foster spirit of unity, and the perpetrators of hate shirk shirk , sunnah loves and hates heresy and heresy actors . In other words , a healthy friendship will give impetus to the safety of the child to keep his religion . Of friendship that will contribute to the good of the world and the afterlife . This is depicted in the hadith of Abu Musa Al - Ash'ari radi ' anhu , in fact the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam said ( meaning ) :" Indeed a good parable seatmate with ugly friends sitting a few drawbacks such as a carrier oil ( perfume ) to the blacksmith . Thus , he could be a few drawbacks carrier will give you ( a few drawbacks ) , it could be you are going to buy ( a few drawbacks ) of it and it could be you just smell a rat anyway aroma ( sweet ) . As for the blacksmith , it could be that your clothes ( terpeciki fire ) on fire and you could be acquiring it smells bad . " ( Al - Bukhari and Muslim )How strong is the influence of friendship , so that the scholars of religion making it a barometer of the state of a person . Al - Imam Ibn Al - ibanah Baththah mention in the story of Al - Imam Sufyan Ats - Thaury when arriving in the city of Basrah , Iraq . Al - Imam Sufyan Ats - notch Atsauri saw a man named Ar - Rabi ' bin Shubaih in the midst of the people . Then Al - Imam Sufyan Ats - Thaury ask people about schools ( understanding ) adopted Ar - Rabi ' . And they said , "No other sect is the Sunnah . " Al - Imam Sufyan Ats - Thaury further asked , " Who is his friend ? " They also said , "People Qadariyah ( the breach against destiny ) . " Said Al - Imam Sufyan Ats - Thaury , "Well , he's a qadari ( adherent anti destiny ) . " ( See Magazine ash- Shariah , hlm.21 86 ) .Thus , a good parent would definitely choose a good environment for their children . Environment where learning , playing environment , and the social environment . Good parents will focus on nature preserves exist in children to stay awake . Nature to always tawheed and Sunnah loves , hates shirk and heresy as well as the culprit .Good parent would not just securing her from cigarettes , alcohol or drugs . But more than that , as a parent of the child must be secured various distorted understanding of religion . As a result of placing the child in a place of learning , parents suddenly startled by his son who carries the Khawarij understanding . Her son involved acts of terrorism . Or , his son became a materialist stances ; just good at chasing the world , hereafter neglected . Or , his son became a liberal stances . Like ruffled religious understanding of the Muslims and make noise propagation . wal - ' iyadzu billah , we seek refuge in Allah from that.May God bless the parents who always consider the safety of their children religion . Amen . Allahu a'lam.